If you thought bachelorette parties were just for getting drunk and pawing male strippers, you need to get yourself invited to one in Kenya, where equipping the bride-to-be for marriage sometimes involves showing her how to throw it down in the bedroom
The sex toy trade is blossoming across the continent as people become increasingly relaxed with the idea of buying them, but except in rare cases, governments are behind the times, and out of step with the desires of the people.
If most Nigerians are to be believed, we do not use sex toys. But somebody’s buying all the sex toys sold in Nigeria, and it’s not uncommon to see ads for sex toys in newspapers. Are we just shy about talking about using “aids” to jazz up our sex lives?
How long before you are ready for sex is more a personal than medical decision. Doctors and midwives have generally advised waiting until the six-week postnatal check
It is still a rare experience for a simple and ordinary man, especially in the modern African community, to experience genuine love. Of course, men who feel that women love them for what they have and not who they are not in a peculiar situation. When men speak about women and love one can almost hear them say, “The prerequisite for love is material things. You must have a posh car, a plush house, fat bank account and some status.”
How do the various combinations – ‘one man, a mistress and at least one girlfriend’; ‘one woman, a steady partner, and several transient lovers’; ‘older man, a wife and his student girlfriend’ – co-exist with Christian values in the world’s most pious country?